Cultural norms and historical injustices contribute to men's silent suffering
via The Namibian3 min read
Traditional leaders and social commentators highlight how cultural norms, historical injustices, and societal expectations lead many men to remain silent about abuse and emotional distress. This discussion follows a case where David Suze, 42, from Gobabis, alleged he was stabbed by his girlfriend. Damara Chief Council secretary general Abner Xoagub states that apartheid-era policies and labor contract systems resulted in generations of black men growing up without strong male role models, as fathers were separated from their families. He explains that this absence led many men to be raised by mothers, lacking male figures to guide them, and fostering feelings of failure and guilt. Xoagub notes that boys are often taught to suppress emotions, continuing this silence into adulthood. Ondonga Traditional Authority spokesperson Frans Enkali confirms that traditional authorities address violence cases regardless of the victim's gender and do receive reports from abused men, though not in large numbers. However, he adds that culture can also discourage reporting, and communities should stop normalizing violence. Psychological counsellor Caesaria Mutau explains that societal expectations of masculinity teach men to be strong and self-reliant, making it difficult for them to admit victimization or seek help, as it may be seen as a sign of weakness. She emphasizes the need to teach men healthy help-seeking behaviors and create supportive environments.
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