The psychology of battered women: Understanding why victims stay
via NewsDay Zimbabwe6 min read
The article explores the complex psychological reasons why women remain in abusive relationships, often expressing love for their abusers despite experiencing violence. The author, Joyline Chiedza Basira, secretary of the Young Women鈥檚 Forum, highlights the societal tendency to blame victims or offer excuses for abusers, rather than providing support for escape. Drawing on insights from researchers and psychologists, the piece explains concepts like "traumatic bonding" and the "cycle of violence." This cycle involves periods of intense abuse followed by a "honeymoon phase" where the abuser is apologetic and kind, leading victims to believe the loving persona is the true individual. This cognitive dissonance, combined with "learned helplessness" from repeated trauma, can convince victims they are powerless to change their circumstances. The article advocates for a shift from offering advice on endurance to providing resources for escape, challenging societal norms that normalize violence, and supporting victims without judgment. It emphasizes that love should not involve abuse and urges individuals to contact local authorities if they or someone they know is experiencing such trauma, referencing the song "Rudo Harurove" love shouldn't hurt as a relevant message.
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